How is (for a male) an ertion of power?

The victim is being ually aulted against their will; they are violently, forcibly, frightened into compliance, stripped of self-determination and robbed of control. To a person who feels ineffectual in their day-to-day life,this feeling of power must represent quite a rush. At it's most basic, is a crime of violence that has a ual component to it. Which is why it is NEVER the victim's fault no matter how a defense attorney has to spin the event.